Sunday, November 17, 2013

November Meeting Recap

Hi Connect!
How are you? Here is a quick recap from our meeting earlier this month.

Service:
1. St. Vincent de Paul Society Thanksgiving baskets -   There will be a group of SVDP volunteers to do the packaging on Fri the 22nd at 1 PM, I guess same place last year, one of the rooms downstairs.  Delivering the baskets, will be on Nov.  23rd, Saturday at 09:45, after the AM mass. Meet at one of the rooms downstairs. If you can help out, thank you!

Social:
No meeting on December 3rd. December's usual meeting time has been rescheduled to Saturday, December 14th, at Cy's house for our annual Christmas dinner party! More info to come. Thank you, Cy, for hosting!

Discussion:
Phil led the discussion on Pope Francis and the media. He played the podcast from Catholic Stuff You Should Know. Check out the link below to listen. Thank you, Phil, for leading the discussion!
1. Quit getting your Vatican or Pope Francis information from the media
2. Check out the Pope app on your smart phone or his Facebook page

God Bless,
Reggie

 
"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." Romans 12:12

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

November's Monthly Scripture and Meditation

See you tonight!

p.s. Don't forget to vote, general election ends today by 8 PM!

Monthly Reading & Meditation Tuesday (November 5): "Invitation to the King's banquet table" Scripture: Luke 14:15-24

15 When one of those who sat at table with him heard this, he said to him, "Blessed is he who shall eat bread in the kingdom of God!" 16 But he said to him, "A man once gave a great banquet, and invited many; 17 and at the time for the banquet he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited, `Come; for all is now ready.' 18 But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said to him, `I have bought a field, and I must go out and see it; I pray you, have me excused.' 19 And another said, `I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I go to examine them; I pray you, have me excused.' 20 And another said, `I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.' 21 So the servant came and reported this to his master. Then the householder in anger said to his servant, `Go out quickly to the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in the poor and maimed and blind and lame.' 22 And the servant said, `Sir, what you commanded has been done, and still there is room.' 23 And the master said to the servant, `Go out to the highways and hedges, and compel people to come in, that my house may be filled. 24 For I tell you, none of those men who were invited shall taste my banquet.'"

Meditation: What does it mean to "eat bread in the kingdom of heaven"? In the ancient world the most notable sign of favor and intimate friendship was the invitation to "share bread" at the dinner table. Who you ate with showed who you valued and trusted as your friends. A great banquet would involve a lavish meal of several courses and a large company of notable guests and friends. One of the most beautiful images of heaven in the scriptures is the royal wedding celebration and banquet given by the King for his son and friends. We, in fact, have been invited to the most important banquet of all! The last book in the Bible ends with an invitation to the wedding feast of the Lamb and his Bride, the church: The Spirit and the Bride say, Come! (Revelations 22:17). The 'Lamb of God' is the Lord Jesus Christ and his bride is the people he has redeemed by his own precious blood which was shed upon the cross for our salvation.

Jesus' "banquet parable" must have startled his audience. If a great lord or king invited his friends to a banquet, why would the guests turn down his invitation? A great banquet would take many days to prepare. And personal invitations would be sent out well in advance to the guests, so they would have plenty of time to prepare for the upcoming event. How insulting for the invited guests to then refuse when the time for celebrating came! They made light of the King's request because they put their own interests above his.

Jesus probes the reasons why people make excuses to God's great invitation to "eat bread" with him at his banquet table. The first excuse allows the claims of one's personal business or work to take precedence over God's claim. Do you allow any task or endeavor to absorb you so much that it keeps you from the thought of God? The second excuse allows our possessions to come before God. Do you allow the media and other diversions to crowd out time for God in daily prayer and worship? The third excuse puts home and family ahead of God. God never meant for our home and relationships to be used selfishly. We serve God best when we invite him into our work, our homes, and our personal lives and when we share our possessions with others.

The second part of the story focuses on those who had no claim on the king and who would never have considered getting such an invitation. The "poor, maimed, blind, and lame" represent the outcasts of society – those who can make no claim on the King. There is even ample room at the feast of God for outsiders from the highways and hedges – the Gentiles who were not members of the chosen people, the Jews. This is certainly an invitation of grace –undeserved, unmerited favor and kindness! But this invitation also contains a warning for those who refuse it or who approach the wedding feast unworthily. Grace is a free gift, but it is also an awesome responsibility.

Dieterich Bonhoeffer, a German pastor who died for his faith by opposing the false Nazism, contrasted cheap grace and costly grace: "Cheap grace is the grace we bestow on ourselves... the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance... grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate... Costly grace is the gospel which must be sought again and again, the gift which must be asked for, the door at which a man must knock. Such grace is costly because it calls us to follow Jesus Christ. It is costly because it costs a man his life, and it is grace because it gives a man the only true life."

God invites each of us to his banquet that we may share in his joy. Are you ready to feast at the Lord's banquet table?

"Lord Jesus, you withhold no good thing from us and you lavish us with the treasures of heaven. Help me to seek your kingdom first and to lay aside anything that might hinder me from doing your will."

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(c) 2013 Don Schwager

Saturday, November 2, 2013

September's discussion recap- New Evangelization

Hi Connect!
Here is the summary of the topic I led last September, better late than never. =)

New Evangelization:
‘Pope Francis’s mission prayer intention for June 2013 is “That where secularization is strongest, Christian communities may effectively promote a new evangelization.” The term new evangelization has been used so much that I’m beginning to sense a backlash against it. As more than one person has said to me, “What was wrong with the old evangelization?” But here in Pope Francis’s mission prayer intention we can see what the new evangelization really entails- evangelizing once again those who were once Christian but have lost the Faith. In that sense, the mission field of the new evangelization is all around us, as family, friends, and neighbors slip away from Christ and His Church.’
http://catholicism.about.com/b/2013/06/07/pope-francis-prayer-intentions-for-june-2013.htm

Ways to be effective evangelizers starts with us.
1. Personal relationship with Christ
2. Personal relationship with the Church
3. A way of living morally
4. Prayer
5. Spiritual reading
6. Charitable works
7. Knowledge of Scripture
8. Traditions and customs

Remember:
1. Know your role
2. Put aside the notion that you'll ever see the fruits of anything you say to someone else in the hope of converting their mind and heart to Christ
3. Use social media to effectively evangelize
4. Don't be afraid to say, "I don't know the answer to that."
5. Narrow down broad questions
6. Meet people where they are at

Let's start the conversation. Let's reach out especially to those who are close to us. I know it's hard from experience, you don't want to push close ones away. Just remember, you'll never know when you'll plant that little seed, everything we do and say does have an affect on someone's life. Let's be ready when they're ready, in God's time.

God Bless!
Reggie

Next meeting this Tuesday, November 5th 7 PM

Hi Connect!
How are you? I hope everyone is doing well! I miss everyone!

We are gathering this Tuesday, November 5th, at 7 PM in the youth room downstairs. It'll be the usual dinner potluck and time to catch up with everyone!
Activities: Cy has a date for distributing the St. Vincent de Paul Thanksgiving baskets, November 23rd. Time yet to be announced. I have contacted the activity coordinator at the Bethany Nursing Home and have screening applications for interested volunteers to complete. I hope to plan an event at the nursing home for December! Jonathan is looking into a Christian concert date. Let's also plan our annual white elephant Christmas party. I'm excited to have us participate in more group activities!
Discussion: Phil will lead the discussion on Pope Francis and his recent media splash. 

See you Tuesday!
God Bless!
Reggie

Saturday, October 12, 2013

Congratulations, Sherry!

Hi Connect!
Just wanted to share with the group wonderful news from our fellow member, Sherry. Her and her family were blessed with a beautiful gift from God, a healthy, baby boy born on September 29th! Welcome Anthony!

He is so adorable! Lots of love to you, Sherry, and your family!

God Bless,
Reggie

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Monthly Scripture Reading and Meditation

Tuesday (October 1):  "Jesus' face was set toward Jerusalem"
Scripture:  Luke 9:51-56
51 When the days drew near for him to be received up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem. 52 And he sent messengers ahead of him, who went and entered a village of the Samaritans, to make ready for him; 53 but the people would not receive him, because his face was set toward Jerusalem. 54 And when his disciples James and John saw it, they said, "Lord, do you want us to bid fire come down from heaven and consume them?" 55 But he turned and rebuked them. 56 And they went on to another village.

Meditation: Are you surprised to see two of Jesus' disciples praying for the destruction of a Samaritan village? The Jews and Samaritans had been divided for centuries. Jewish pilgrims who passed through Samaritan territory were often assaulted. Jesus did the unthinkable for a Jew. He not only decided to travel through Samaritan territory at personal risk, but he also asked for hospitality in one of their villages! Jesus' offer of friendship was rebuffed. Is there any wonder that the disciples were indignant and felt justified in wanting to see retribution done to this village? Wouldn't you respond the same way? Jesus, however, rebukes his disciples for their lack of toleration.  Jesus had "set his face toward Jerusalem" to die on a cross that Jew, Samaritan and Gentile might be reconciled with God and be united as one people in Christ.

Tolerance is a much needed virtue today. But aren't we often tolerant for the wrong thing or for the wrong motive? Christian love seeks the highest good of both one's neighbor and one's enemy. When Abraham Lincoln was criticized for his courtesy and tolerance towards his enemies during the American Civil War, he responded: "Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?" How do you treat those who cross you and cause you trouble? Do you seek their good rather than their harm?

"Lord Jesus, you are gracious, merciful, and kind. Set me free from my prejudice and intolerance towards those I find disagreeable, and widen my heart to love and to do good even to those who wish me harm or evil." 

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(c) 2013 Don Schwager


Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Monthly Scripture Reading and Meditation

 Wednesday (September 11):  "Blessed are you poor - yours is the kingdom of God"
 
Scripture: Luke 6:20-26
20 And he lifted up his eyes on his disciples, and said: "Blessed are you poor, for yours is the kingdom of God. 21 "Blessed are you that hunger now, for you shall be satisfied. "Blessed are you that weep now, for you shall laugh. 22 "Blessed are you when men hate you, and when they exclude you and revile you, and cast out your name as evil, on account of the Son of man! 23 Rejoice in that day, and leap for joy, for behold, your reward is great in heaven; for so their fathers did to the prophets. 24 "But woe to you that are rich, for you have received your consolation. 25 "Woe to you that are full now, for you shall hunger. "Woe to you that laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep. 26 "Woe to you, when all men speak well of you, for so their fathers did to the false prophets.

Meditation: When you encounter misfortune, grief, or tragic loss, how do you respond? With fear or faith? With passive resignation or with patient hope and trust in God? We know from experience that no one can escape all of the inevitable trials of life – pain, suffering, sickness, and death. When Jesus began to teach his disciples he gave them a "way of happiness" that transcends every difficulty and trouble that can weigh us down with grief and despair. Jesus began his sermon on the mount by addressing the issue of where true happiness can be found. The word beatitude literally means happiness or blessedness. Jesus' way of happiness, however, demands a transformation from within – a conversion of heart and mind which can only come about through the gift and working of the Holy Spirit.

How can one possibly find happiness in poverty, hunger, mourning, and persecution? If we want to be filled with the joy and happiness of heaven, then we must empty ourselves of all that would shut God out of our hearts. Poverty of spirit finds ample room and joy in possessing God alone as the greatest treasure possible. Hunger of the spirit seeks nourishment and strength in God's word and Spirit. Sorrow and mourning over wasted life and sin leads to joyful freedom from the burden of guilt and oppression. God reveals to the humble of heart the true source of abundant life and happiness. Jesus promises his disciples that the joys of heaven will more than compensate for the troubles and hardships they can expect in this world. Thomas Aquinas said: "No person can live without joy. That is why someone deprived of spiritual joy goes after carnal pleasures." Do you know the joy and happiness of hungering and thirsting for God alone?

"Lord Jesus, increase my hunger for you and show me the way that leads to everlasting happiness and peace. May I desire you above all else and find perfect joy in doing your will."

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(c) 2011 Don Schwager

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

August Meeting Recap

Hi Connect!
It has been busy this past month, I apologize for sending out last month's recap today, the day of our September meeting. =)

Volunteer opportunities we discussed: Birthday Box, Habitat of Humanity, Cocoon House, senior citizen assisted living
Social events: Sounders game, college or pro football game, musical, concerts, Bubble Run

Cy led the discussion on St. Vincent de Paul.
St. Vincent was born in 1581 in Gascony, in the Province of  Guyenne and Gascony, the Kingdom of France, to a family of peasant farmers. He was ordained in 1600 at the age of nineteen. In 1605, on his way back from Marseille, he was taken captive by Barbary pirates, who brought him to Tunis. De Paul was auctioned off as a slave to the highest bidder, and spent two years in bondage.

In 1617, De Paul founded the "Ladies of Charity" from a group of women within his parish. He organized these wealthy women of Paris to collect funds for missionary projects, found hospitals, and gather relief funds for the victims of war and to ransom 1,200 galley slaves from North Africa.
After working for some time in Paris among imprisoned galley-slaves, he returned to be the leader of what is now known as the Congregation of the Mission, or the "Vincentians". These priests, with vows of poverty, chastity, obedience and stability, were to devote themselves entirely to the people in smaller towns and villages.
 Vincent lived to be eighty. He was canonized by Pope Clement XII in 1737, and was named patron of all charitable societies by Pope Leo XIII in 1885. His feast day is September 27.

St. Vincent de Paul is the patron of all works of charity. The Society of St. Vincent de Paul, a charitable organization dedicated to the service of the poor, was established by French university students in 1833, led by the Blessed Frederic Ozanam. The Society is today present in 132 countries.
(wikipedia)
Thank you Cy for the information. I did not know his charitable organization has been around for 180 years! I'm happy our group has chosen to help with this organization every year with the Thanksgiving baskets. 


I read in our parish bulletin, SVDP is in need of a few things: canned tuna, canned fruit, peanut butter, jelly, canned soup, macaroni and cheese. If you can pick up a few of these things on your way to the meeting tonight and drop it off in the vestibule bin marked SVDP, greatly appreciated! Or you can drop it off any time.

We ended the meeting in quiet prayer in the Chapel.

See you tonight, 9/10, in the St. Elizabeth Ann Seton's youth room at 7 PM! It was hard for me to decide on one topic for today. I prayed for help, and I think I'm being led to discuss evangelization or new evangelization. =)

God Bless,
Reggie

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Monthly Reading and Meditation

Tuesday (August 6): "Jesus was transfigured before them"
 
Scripture: Luke 9:28-36   (alternate reading: Matthew 14:22-33)
28 Now about eight days after these sayings he took with him Peter and John and James, and went up on the mountain to pray. 29 And as he was praying, the appearance of his countenance was altered, and his raiment became dazzling white. 30 And behold, two men talked with him, Moses and Eli'jah, 31 who appeared in glory and spoke of his departure, which he was to accomplish at Jerusalem. 32 Now Peter and those who were with him were heavy with sleep, and when they wakened they saw his glory and the two men who stood with him. 33 And as the men were parting from him, Peter said to Jesus, "Master, it is well that we are here; let us make three booths, one for you and one  for Moses and one for Eli'jah" -- not knowing what he said. 34 As he said this, a cloud came and overshadowed them; and they were afraid as they entered the cloud. 35 And a voice came out of the cloud, saying, "This is my Son, my Chosen; listen to him!" 36 And when the voice had spoken, Jesus was found alone. And they kept silence and told no one in those days anything of what they had seen.

Meditation: Are you prepared to see God's glory? God is eager to share his glory with us! We get a glimpse of this when some of the disciples see Jesus transfigured in glory on a high mountain. [In the Eastern Orthodox, Catholic, and Anglican churches, this event is celebrated as a major feast on August 6.] Jesus often went to a lonely place to pray – to seek solitude and sanctuary away from the crowds. But on this occasion, the Gospel of Mark tells us that Jesus was transfigured ..and his garments became glistening, intensely white (Mark 9:2,3).

When Moses met with God on Mount Sinai the skin of his face shone because he had been talking with God (see Exodus 34:29). Paul says that the Israelites could not look at Moses' face because of its brightness (2 Corinthians 3:7). In the Gospel account Jesus appeared in glory with Moses, the great lawgiver of Israel, and with Elijah, the greatest of the prophets, in the presence of three of his beloved apostles – Peter, James, and John.

What is the significance of this mysterious appearance? Jesus went to the mountain knowing full well what awaited him in Jerusalem – his betrayal, rejection and crucifixion. Jesus very likely discussed this momentous decision to go to the cross with Moses and Elijah. God the Father also spoke with Jesus and gave his approval: This is my beloved Son; listen to him. The Father glorified his son because he obeyed. The cloud which overshadowed Jesus and his apostles fulfilled the dream of the Jews that when the Messiah came the cloud of God's presence would fill the temple again (see Exodus 16:10, 19:9, 33:9; 1 Kings 8:10; 2 Maccabees 2:8).

The Lord Jesus not only wants us to see his glory – he wants to share this glory with us. And Jesus shows us the way to the Father's glory: follow me – obey my words – take the path I have chosen for you and you will receive the blessings of my Father's kingdom – your name will be written in heaven. Jesus succeeded in his mission because he went to Calvary so that Paradise would be restored to us once again. He embraced the cross to obtain the crown of glory that awaits each one of us, if we will follow in his footsteps.
Origen, the great 3rd century bible scholar, shows us how the transfiguration can change our lives: “When he is transfigured, his face also shines as the sun that he may be manifested to the children of light who have put off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light, and are no longer the children of darkness or night but have become the sons of day, and walk honestly as in the day. Being manifest, he will shine unto them not simply as the sun, but as demonstrated to be the sun of righteousness.”

Luke’s gospel tells us that while Jesus was transfigured, Peter, James, and John were asleep (Luke 9:32)! Upon awakening they discovered Jesus in glory along with Moses and Elijah. How much do we miss of God's glory and action because we are asleep spiritually?  There are many things which can keep our minds asleep to the things of God: Mental lethargy and the "unexamined life" can keep us from thinking things through and facing our doubts and questions. The life of ease can also hinder us from considering the challenging or disturbing demands of Christ.  Prejudice can make us blind to something new the Lord may have for us. Even sorrow can be a block until we can see past it to the glory of God. Are you spiritually awake? Peter, James, and John were privileged witnesses of the glory of Christ. We, too, as disciples of Christ are called to be witnesses of his glory. We all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being changed into his likeness from one degree of glory to another; for this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit (2 Corinthians 3:18). The Lord wants to reveal his glory to us, his beloved disciples. Do you seek his presence with faith and reverence?

“Lord Jesus, keep me always alert and awake to you, to your word, your action, and your daily presence in my life. Let me see your glory.”



 (c) 2013 Don Schwager

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Ronald McDonald House service event

Thank you, Connect, for making our Ronald McDonald House community service event a success!

I had lots of fun and I hope you did, too! I liked how our kitchen supervisor, Sara, would announce how much time we had left. I felt as if we were on the Iron Chef t.v. show! =) 

I really liked how we worked well together. Thank you to Cy and Rhea for doing a great job leading your stations. Everyone had an important role and everyone's participation was vital to completing the dinner meal on time. Thank you! The meal included Chicken Teriyaki, rice, Vegetable Chop Suey, fruit medley, and triple chocolate brownies.

I am grateful we were able to help feed many families of patient's at Children's Hospital. I'm glad we were able to give the time to prepare, serve and clean up back to the families to spend quality time with their children who need it the most right now.

Thank you for your time, monetary donations, and prayers! I definitely want our group to continue serving this charity. I'll make sure we rotate who leads this event. =)


God Bless,
Reggie
 

Monday, July 22, 2013

Church Picnic Donation- Cookies!

Hi Connect!
The group organizing the church picnic on August 4th, has asked our group to help by donating cookies. I said sure our group can help! =)
They are asking if each person can donate one or two dozen cookies per person. I told her our group is not large, and Marcia said, "No matter how few, it will be wonderful if you guys can do it."
You can drop off the cookies in the kitchen starting Friday afternoon, August 2nd. Please label your donation, church picnic from Connect.

Thank you!
Reggie

Thursday, July 11, 2013

July 2nd Meeting Recap

Hello Connect!
How are you?
It was nice catching up with some of you at our last meeting. Thank you for coming!
Jonathan led the discussion on the seven sacraments. He referenced from the book "Youcat" received from World Youth Day. The seven Catholic sacraments are Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist, Reconciliation, Anointing of the Sick, Holy Orders, and Marriage.
Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist are the sacraments of initiation.
1. Baptism- Grace, a gift from God. Water cleansing, it removes the guilt and effects of original sin. Out of death, a way into life.
2. Confirmation- completes Baptism. Usually a teenager, accepting fully, the responsibility and pledge as true witnesses of Christ, to spread and defend the faith by word and deed. Confirmation increases and deepens all of the graces granted at Baptism.
3. Eucharist- the Sacrament of Holy Communion, the reception of Christ's Body and Blood, was historically the third of the three sacraments of initiation.True presence of Jesus. We receive communion to continually transform to become Jesus. Communion unites all 1.2 billion Catholics in the world.
4. Reconciliation- Confess grave sin in order to reunite with Jesus. We need His grace to receive it.
5. Anointing of the sick- is administered both to the dying and to those who are gravely ill or are about to undergo a serious operation, for the recovery of their health and for spiritual strength. The essential rite of the sacrament consists in the priest laying hands on the sick, anointing him with blessed oil, and praying "Through this holy anointing may the Lord in his love and mercy help you with the grace of the Holy Spirit. May the Lord who frees you from sin save you and raise you up." Jonathan shared his experience of this Sacrament for his father who recently passed away in June. He shared that witnessing this Sacrament also provided comfort and joy for him that his father will join eternal life. Thank you Jonathan for sharing your personal experience with us. May your father rest in peace.
6. Holy orders- the continuation of Christ's priesthood as Bishop, Priest, and Deacon. The Bishop and Priest are married to the church, the church is their bride. 
7. Marriage- a lifelong, exclusive union between a man and a woman open to children. It is a reflection of God's love and devotion.
Thank you Jonathan for leading the discussion!

We have our community service event this Sunday. Thank you to all of you who are volunteering and/or donated money. I'm thankful we have this opportunity to provide a meal to the families of sick patients at Children's Hospital. Please pray it will be a success. 
I'll send out an email with more info to those who will be there.

God Bless,
Reggie

Monday, July 1, 2013

July 2nd Meeting Agenda

Hi Connect!
Our monthly gathering is tomorrow, Tuesday, July 2nd, at 7 PM in the youth room at church. I was thinking we can do a mini version of the meal we will be serving at the Ronald McDonald house. I know it's last minute, so Suzanne and Phil, you don't have to try to make the cheesy mini meatloaf. We've tried it before and it was good. I will try to make the loaded baked potato salad. Rhea will make the brownie with pretzel crust. Can someone bring a salad made with romaine lettuce? Phil and I are meeting with the Ronald McDonald coordinator tomorrow, so we'll fill you in with the details.

So far I have Phil, Suzanne, Rhea, Nieves and me volunteering to prepare and serve the meal. Nieves might have 4 friends to help and Rhea might have 1. Donated money so far is $180. Thank you! Don't worry we'll meet our number, you can count on me bugging you if you haven't contacted me yet. =)

Johnathan will be leading our discussion tomorrow on the Catholic sacraments. Thank you for volunteering!

We also have been assigned to donate cookies to the church outdoor picnic on August 4th.

See you soon. Looking forward to seeing everyone!

God Bless,
Reggie

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

June 4th Meeting Recap

Hi Connect!
How are you? 
Yesterday was the last day of school for my kids, let the summer begin! =)

We had another great meeting earlier this month. There was lots of food to share and this time we had multiple guest speakers! Nieves invited her friends to share their stories of successful parenting. Most of their kids are in their teen years. It was very enlightening and encouraging especially for me raising 1st grade boys. 
 
Summary of successful parenting:
Each child is a gift from God and each one is blessed with their own different personality. It's important for parents to not lose faith, be close to God, respect each other and self, keep an open communication and be on the same page. This sets a great foundation for the kids to follow.
Constant statements by the guest speakers were to keep an open communication with your children, set clear expectations, discipline, respect and unconditional love. I liked the reminder to be conscious parents. Be actively involved with your children. Be deliberate in your parenting role and not let others, society, friends be the main influence of your kids. 

Here are some great ideas of how they have made it happen in their home.
After Sunday mass, take home the homily to discuss further with your child to help them understand what it means. Be encouraging and remind them when they are hard on themselves that at least they tried their best. Set clear expectations from the beginning, don't be afraid to discipline. Encourage them to have friends with the same values and respect. Invite their friends and their friends' parents over for dinner at your home. After school, ask them to share with you three things they did that day, be engaging. Then actively listen and remember you don't have to fix their problems. Make them feel appreciated, say thank you or please to your child at least three times a day. Make time for quality family time. Don't let work steal all of your precious time away from your kids.

Proverbs 22:6 Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.

Thank you, Nieves for leading a heartfelt discussion! Thank you to our guest speakers for sharing their stories! It helped to reinforce what some of us are already doing or thinking of doing, and needing to hear that it does work in the long run. I learned a lot!
 
Our next meeting is on July 2nd. I will send another email out with information about our next community service event on July 14th at the Ronald McDonald House. Please check your schedule if you are available to help out!
Take care and God Bless!
Reggie

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

June Scripture Reading and Meditation

Daily Reading & Meditation
Tuesday (June 4): "Give to God what belongs to God"
 
Scripture: Mark 12:13-17
13 And they sent to him some of the Pharisees and some of the Hero'dians, to entrap him in his talk. 14 And they came and said to him, "Teacher, we know that you are true, and care for no man; for you do not regard the position of men, but truly teach the way of God. Is it lawful to pay taxes to Caesar, or not? 15 Should we pay them, or should we not?" But knowing their hypocrisy, he said to them, "Why put me to the test? Bring me a coin, and let me look at it." 16 And they brought one. And he said to them, "Whose likeness and inscription is this?" They said to him, "Caesar's." 17 Jesus said to them, "Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's." And they were amazed at him.

Meditation: What do we owe God and what's our obligation towards others? Paul the Apostle tells us that we must give each what is their due (Romans 13:6-8). The Jewish authorities sought to trap Jesus in a religious-state dispute over the issue of taxes. The Jews resented their foreign rulers and despised paying taxes to Caesar. They posed a dilemma to test Jesus to see if he would make a statement they could use against him. If Jesus answered that it was lawful to pay taxes to a pagan ruler, then he would lose credibility with the Jewish populace who would regard him as a coward and a friend of Caesar.  If he said it was not lawful, then the Pharisees would have grounds to report him to the Roman authorities as a political trouble-maker and have him arrested. Jesus avoided their trap by confronting them with the image of a coin. Coinage in the ancient world had significant political power. Rulers issued coins with their own image and inscription on them. In a certain sense the coin was regarded as the personal property of the ruler. Where the coin was valid the ruler held political sway over the people. Since the Jews used the Roman currency, Jesus explained that what belonged to Caesar must be given to Caesar.

This story has another deeper meaning as well. We, too, have been stamped with God's image since we are created in his own likeness (Genesis 1:26-27). We rightfully belong, not to ourselves, but to God who created us and redeemed us in the precious blood of his Son, our Lord Jesus Christ (see 1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Paul the Apostle says that we are to present our bodies as a living sacrifice to God (Romans 12:1). Do you acknowledge that your life belongs to God and not to yourself? And do you give to God what rightfully belongs to Him?
"Lord, because you have made me, I owe you the whole of my love; because you have redeemed me, I owe you the whole of myself; because you have promised so much, I owe you all my being.  Moreover, I owe you as much more love than myself as you are greater than I, for whom you gave yourself and to whom you promised yourself. I pray you, Lord, make me taste by love what I taste by knowledge; let me know by love what I know by understanding. I owe you more than my whole self, but I have no more, and by myself I cannot render the whole of it to you. Draw me to you, Lord, in the fullness of love. I am wholly yours by creation; make me all yours, too, in love." (prayer of Anselm, 1033-1109)

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Sunday, June 2, 2013

Upcoming June Meeting

Hi Connect!
How are you? It has been a very Blessed week!
Our group had a great run at the Good Karma 5K fundraiser event last week. The weather was overcast and some sprinkles, not too cold, not too hot. Wonderful running weather. Rhea, Phil, Suzanne, Daigo-my husband, and I ran the race with great finish times. Sherry and the kids cheered us on at the sidelines. It was very cute. We celebrated together with a fun picnic BBQ afterwards. We even roasted marshmallows. Great picnic idea, Phil. We'll have to do this again next year! Rhea posted pictures from our event on our blog.

Our next potluck meeting is this Tuesday, June 4th at 7 PM. Nieves will lead the discussion on raising good teenagers. I definitely will be taking notes. =)

We will also discuss our next community service event, preparing a meal for families staying at the Ronald McDonald House in Seattle on July 14th. We will be serving at House A, planning and providing food for 75 people and needing a group size of 8-15 volunteers. So this is a big project for us! I need your help, time and commitment in order for this to be a success. I feel we are ready to do this especially with our experience serving several dinner meals with Operation Sack Lunch. The difference this time is that we are planning and providing the funds for the meal. I'm excited our group wants to help the families of patients at Seattle Children's Hospital in such a generous way! 

So this Tuesday, please bring ideas of what we should serve. Here are some suggestions to consider from their website:
Ronald McDonald House Charities of Western Washington & Alaska
Menu Planning
Important Note: All foods must be prepared at the House or purchased from a commercial kitchen. No preparation including chopping may be done at home. Dinner groups often ask what they should cook for dinner at the Ronald McDonald House. We welcome your own recipes, but also have a recipe book online which may be viewed at http://www.rmhcseattle.org/content/family-meal-program-and-calendar.
The other question often asked is what entrees are served most frequently at the Ronald McDonald House—the answer: spaghetti, tacos, and lasagna.
Please consider serving something different. As a general guideline, please consider providing the following menu items:
Main dish (it is not necessary to provide both a meat and vegetarian entrée)
Starch, if not included in the main dish
Fresh green salad or vegetable salad and/or vegetable
Fresh fruit
Bread/rolls with butter
Dessert
Beverages (We have drink dispensers,coolers, and ice. Individually packaged drinks, including bottled water, juice, or milk are easiest to serve. It is also fine to serve large containers of beverages that are poured into cups, which we provide).

See you Tuesday!
God Bless,
Reggie

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Good Karma 5K Run

Hello Connect!
Have you been training for our big run event? It's this Sunday, May 26th at 9 AM at Seward Park. Bring along a friend or family member!
If you haven't registered yet, here is the link www.goodkarma5k.com. Don't forget you can bring canned foods or slightly used shoes to donate to local charity stations at the race.

I'm excited for this event because most of our members participating will run the 5K this time! Yay! I'm so proud of our efforts to be more health conscious and physically active. I like how our group encourages each other to grow in many ways, spiritually, physically, and socially. I like how we nudge each other just a little to explore outside of our comfort zones.

So the plan for this Sunday is to run at 9 AM, registration begins at 7:30 AM. This time we'll celebrate afterwards with a potluck picnic BBQ at the park. It costs lots of money to rent a shelter, so let's just bring your own blankets and picnic food item to share. I highly recommend storing your food item in a cooler in your car. I checked the weather channel and it looks like it will most likely be cloudy, 65 degrees. Very good running and spring picnic weather! If it's raining after the run, we'll probably have the picnic indoors at someone's house =) or go to a local restaurant I found. http://www.geraldinescounter.com/

Bring a baseball mitt to play catch with my boys afterwards and it's a great way to practice for the softball team if you've joined!

See you Sunday!
Run happy!
God Bless,
Reggie

May Meeting Recap

Hi Connect!
Here is a recap of our meeting from a couple weeks ago. It was great seeing everyone again! I also appreciate those of you who still keep in touch with me when you can't make it. We miss you!

Upcoming Events: 
1. Good Karma 5k run May 26th at Seward Park 9 AM
2. Serve dinner to families of patients at Seattle Children's Hospital at the Ronald McDonald House on July 14th. We want to serve the house with 75 people! We need your support and commitment for this big service event. More info to come.

Rhea led the discussion about Mother Mary in honor of Mother's Day.
She is the Mother of God, Mother of Jesus, wife of St. Joseph, and the greatest of all Christian saints. The Virgin Mother was, after her Son, exalted by divine grace above all angels and men. Traditionally, she was declared the daughter of Sts. Joachim and Anne. Born in Jerusalem, Mary was presented in the Temple and took a vow of virginity. Living in Nazareth, Mary was visited by the archangel Gabriel, who announced to her that she would become the Mother of Jesus, by the Holy Spirit. She became betrothed to St. Joseph.


Many prayers and petitions are said to Mary to ask her to intercede with her son. The nature of intercessory prayer is that it is a request for a person in heaven to intervene with God and bring the petitioners prayers to the notice of God. Most Catholics feel a strong personal relationship to Mary, because sh is in a sense, mother to all. To the Father, represented as God, Christ and the Holy Spirit, you would bring your large concerns. Prayers for Mary's intercessions can bring up the small wounds and hurts that may not be big enough to talk to God about.

Genesis 3:15 contains the promise of the redemption of mankind after the Fall of Adam and Eve. The Incarnation of the Christ was the manifestation of the promise and it was fulfilled with Jesus Christ's sacrificial death and glorious resurrection. The New Testament portrays Jesus as the "Second Adam" whose obedience and sacrificial death on the cross undo Adam's disobedience (see Romans 5:12-21 and 1 Corinthians 15:45-49). Jesus, the Second Adam, triumphed over the same temptations to which the first Adam fell into sin (compare Genesis 3:6 to Luke 4:1-13). Just as there is a Second Adam there is also a Second Eve. Mary, the Virgin Mother of Christ is the Second Eve.
The two Eves contrasted:
The Virgin Eve-

  • Daughter of the first Covenant
  • Pledged obedience under the covenant
  • Eve's disobedience resulted in the fall into sin of the entire human race. The result was death, physically and spiritually
  • Eve's name means the "mother of all living" and indeed all of humanity is descended through her
The Virgin Mary-
  • Daughter of the Sinai Covenant
  • Pledged obedience under the covenant
  • Mary's obedience to God resulted in the offer of the gift of salvation to the entire human race. The result was eternal life.
  • Mary is the "mother of all who truly live" when, at the cross, Jesus gave His mother to the Church as the Mother of all who come to receive Jesus as Savior and Lord and therefore receive the gift of eternal life.
From a practical sense, the Virgin Mary also supports the woman's role in the church. Mary is a servant, a mother and lives free of sin. Women should be servants, mothers, caretakers, and strive for sinless living. Copying Mary assumes that women do not take a leadership role in the Church, but instead a role of servitude. This reinforces Catholic doctrine that women are not meant to be priests. This definitely brought much debate amongst the group!

Thank you, Rhea, for leading an informative discussion!
God Bless,
Reggie

Monday, May 6, 2013

Next meeting, May 7th

Hi Connect!
How are you?
Is it summer already?=) My family and I enjoyed the mid 80's temperature today at Mukilteo Beach. The sunset was beautiful!

Just a reminder we have our monthly meeting tomorrow, May 7th at 7 PM in the youth room.
Rhea will lead the discussion on Mother Mary in honor of Mother's Day this coming weekend. Yes, don't forget to celebrate your mom this Sunday!

Have a warm, Blessed week!
Hope to see you soon!
Reggie

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Community Service Event

Hi Connect!
Thank you Cy, Rhea, Phil, Jeffery, and Alano for your service last Saturday with Operation: Sack Lunch. This was my nephew's first time volunteering and he enjoyed it. 

Our next service event for the month of May is a 5K walk/run with Good Karma 5K. Check out their website to view how you can help support local charities. 
http://www.goodkarma5k.com/default.html
The run is around beautiful Seward Park. There is one big hill which hopefully will be at the end of the run this time. =) It's not a large event which I find very appealing. Exercise and help your community, it's a win-win event!

Sign up soon and enter this code they awarded us for returning: RT13GK. You'll receive $5 off per person.

God Bless,
Reggie

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

April Meeting Recap

Happy Easter Season!
Hi Connect! How are you?

Our last meeting, Suzanne discussed Easter and other traditions. Easter Sunday was on March 31st, but the season does not end until the evening prayer on the Solemnity of Pentecost on May 19th. Easter celebrates the resurrection of Jesus. The date of Easter is the first Sunday after the full moon following the March Equinox. Pagan traditions celebrated at this time come from the ancient Saxons in Northern Europe. They worshiped the Goddess Oestre at the time of the Spring Equinox. She represents the sunrise, spring-time and fertility, the renewal of life. Colored eggs were offered to her. Another pagan influence is the famous bunny, this also symbolizes fertility.

Easter has one of the highest sales in candy, 2nd to Halloween!

Suzanne also shared with us April 3rd's daily reading, Acts chapter 3, verse 1-10. Luke chapter 24:13-35.
Reflection: "What a glorious time of year this is!!  It is spring time in the northern hemisphere – flowers are peeking their heads through the ground (and snow in some places).  The daylight is longer and even the smell of the air is invigorating.  New life is all around us – inviting us to hopeful.  But even more than the flowers and the bright sunshine, we called to new life because we are Easter people.  We have seen the real hope in our lives, in our very beings.  The readings for today are full of that hope and life.  I’m reminded of the words of Robert Browning: Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the first was made.  As we bathe in the light of this weekend and the wonders of Easter, I truly believe the best is yet to be...When the Holy Spirit makes its presence known to us through that burn it is essential that we embrace it and jump and praise God  . . . the best is yet to be." -Nancy Shirley

Thank you Suzanne for sharing!
I'll be sending more information regarding our volunteer service this month.

God Bless,
Reggie